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SN 9.8PTS (1st ed) SN 1.2011 min read

The Mistress of the House

Kulagharaṇīsutta

A deity becomes concerned of the gossip about a certain monk who had become close with a family in the village. Taking the form of one of the women of the family, she tries to warn him; but he says a true practitioner is not concerned with gossip.

Translated by Bhikkhu Sujato · Pāli: Mahāsaṅgīti Tipiṭaka · Public domain (CC0) via SuttaCentral

  • 0.1Saṁyutta Nikāya 9.8Linked Discourses 9.8
  • 0.21. Vanavagga1. In the Woods

0.3KulagharaṇīsuttaThe Mistress of the House

1.1Ekaṁ samayaṁ aññataro bhikkhu kosalesu viharati aññatarasmiṁ vanasaṇḍe.At one time one of the monks was staying in the land of the Kosalans in a certain forest grove.

1.2Tena kho pana samayena so bhikkhu aññatarasmiṁ kule ativelaṁ ajjhogāḷhappatto viharati.Now at that time that monk had become too closely involved in the affairs of a certain family.1.3Atha kho yā tasmiṁ vanasaṇḍe adhivatthā devatā tassa bhikkhuno anukampikā atthakāmā taṁ bhikkhuṁ saṁvejetukāmā yā tasmiṁ kule kulagharaṇī, tassā vaṇṇaṁ abhinimminitvā yena so bhikkhu tenupasaṅkami; upasaṅkamitvā taṁ bhikkhuṁ gāthāya ajjhabhāsi:The deity haunting that forest had sympathy for that monk, wanting what’s best for him. So, wanting to stir him up, they manifested in the appearance of the mistress of that family, approached the monk, and addressed him in verse:

2.1“Nadītīresu saṇṭhāne,“At river banks and guest houses,2.2sabhāsu rathiyāsu ca;hotels and highways,12.3Janā saṅgamma mantenti,people gather to gossip about2.4mañca tañca kimantaran”ti.what’s going on between you and me.”

3.1“Bahūhi saddā paccūhā,“There are many sounds echoing23.2khamitabbā tapassinā;that a fervent ascetic must endure.3.3Na tena maṅku hotabbaṁ,They ought not be dismayed by that,3.4na hi tena kilissati.for that’s not what defiles you.

4.1Yo ca saddaparittāsī,If you’re startled by every little sound,4.2vane vātamigo yathā;like a wind-deer in the wood,34.3Lahucittoti taṁ āhu,they’ll call you ‘flighty minded’;4.4nāssa sampajjate vatan”ti.and your practice won’t succeed.”

Translator’s notes

  1. For sabhā as a gathering-place for (disreputable) travellers, see Manu 9.264.

    ↩ sn9.8:2.2
  2. For the unique paccūhā see Sanskrit prativyūha, “an army arrayed against an enemy” or else “echo, reverberation”. It calls back to the previous line, “between you and me”.

    ↩ sn9.8:3.1
  3. According to Haṁsadeva’s 13th century Mṛgapakṣiśāstra, the “wind-deer” (vātamiga, Sanskrit vātamṛga) is fast, skilled at escaping weapons and vanishing from sight. Dwelling in deep forests, it is lean with long legs and branched antlers. It makes an appearance also in Ja 14 and Tha Ap 482.

    ↩ sn9.8:4.2